10 Habits of highly successful riders
Looking to up your game? Kate Samuels
outlines a list of qualities that will make you a more effective equestrian.
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A little leap of faith. Photo by Jade Cooling.
From Kate:
All over the internet, we see lists
telling us how to be slimmer, how to get a leg up in the corporate world, how
to improve our love lives and how to find satisfaction in life. A lot of the
time, these lists are in the form of “Ten Habits,” and they are meant to
inspire change for good within your life — and not just what you wear out the
door in the morning. So how can we boil it down for riding? What are the top 10
habits of a successful and effective equestrian?
1.
Patience: This one’s a no-brainer. Good riders
know that you can’t rush things when it comes to horses, and at the end of the
day, it’s better to have small positive experiences than big negative ones
because you lost your patience.
2.
Empathy: Understanding your equine partners
can be hard since they can’t speak their mind. Horses have to use other methods
of communicating thoughts and feelings, and a good rider always considers the
reasoning behind actions, even if they are generally thought of as “bad
behaviors.” Empathy helps you think and feel from another perspective, and
that’s integral for interacting with horses.
3.
Persistence: Good horsemen and horsewomen around
the world will tell you that persisting with a difficult horse, a challenging
task or a complex issue is the only way to solve it. Running away from problems
and not addressing issues won’t help you at all when it comes to training
horses, and those that are willing to try more often will succeed more often.
4.
Willingness to learn: A successful rider
knows that there is something to be learned from every person, horse and
experience that you have in life, and they’re willing to take it any way they
can. This willingness also helps them up when they are handed disappointments
because they can view it in an educational light, despite the pain.
5.
Knowing when to quit: Just as important
as persistence is knowing when to call it a day. Good riders have an intuitive
sense of when to quit and end on a good note. This is a constantly morphing and
changing part of horses because no matter how old you are or how experienced
the horse, some days you just won’t get exactly as much as you wanted, and
knowing how to remain positive at the end is important.
6.
Logical thinking: There is no way you
can be a successful rider and not have an ability to step back and logically
think out a situation. Horses can pull all sorts of emotions out of us, but
they don’t belong in the saddle. Good riders must be able to rationally assess
things and approach problems from a logical point of view.
7.
Self improvement: Not only do
successful riders have an open-minded approach to learning, but their thirst
for constant self improvement is never ending. There is no one answer, no pure
right way to do anything with horses, and there are always more answers and
different ways to accomplish goals. Good riders recognize this, and they pursue
knowledge until the day they die.
8.
Efficacy and efficiency: Good
riders know how to produce the biggest and best result with the smallest amount
of effort or pounding on the horse. They know that repeating a single jump
endlessly without improvement is a waste, and they figure out how to make
things happen efficiently. They are constantly honing their skills to create
what they want in the horse without drilling them or using a large amount of
physical force.
9.
Recognizing talent: Yes, successful
riders usually have a knack for recognizing talent in a horse, but they also
know when they see talent in other riders. Whether it’s a rider from their own
discipline or another, they can see it, and they want to be around it.
Surrounding themselves with good influences is the number one way to self
improvement and inspiration toward better things.
10.
Determination: As all of us know horses have a funny
way of bringing both the highest of highs and the lowest of lows into our
lives. Those that choose to be successful in any equestrian sport must have an
inner determination and grit that is almost unequaled in any other world. In
order to get up and dust yourself off from almost daily disappointments, you
have to have this quality, or you’ll fall by the wayside.
This is just my short list of
necessary qualities that I think all successful riders must have. What would
you add? Let me know in the comments below.
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